You Always Receive What you give
You are a vibrational being, therefore, you are always emitting a signal which is a reflection of who you truly are, and whatever you send out, it will get back to you.
So then, if you don't like your current reality, you must pay attention to how you are feeling most of the time and understand what beliefs are making you feel in that way, then change it. Once you have changed it, you will automatically start to put out a different signal and thus changing your reality.
The Lightworkers' Garden